Filed under: Perspectives in Brief
It’s time to do triage.
Labor Day is over and we’re diving back into a regular, post summer holiday mode routine. Before the saying “It’s always been done this way” pops into your mind as an automatic answer to why you’re going to dive in doing things in the same old way, start doing triage. We’re doing it more and more in the work place and it’s time to do triage in your individual worlds as well.
We’re overbooked, overwhelmed, overcommitted and over-exhausted and that’s not a way to dive into what is usually the busiest time of the year. Instead it’s time to do triage and choose the work you must do, let go of the work you must NOT do, commit to whatever it is you know you can accomplish and say “no” to the rest. It’s time to figure out how you can let your personal life be as important as your professional life, as ‘play’ time energizes you as much as sleep does (albeit in a different way).
So what can you do about it?
Learn how to say no in such a way that there’s something replacing the no so it’s not an all or nothing answer.
Learn to commit to the things you really want to do or know you have to do to move forward, not out of obligation but out of choice.
Work with a coach. I’m not tooting my own horn here…I’m saying learn how to use language to evolve you, make choices that will enable learning and growth and strengthen relationships (among other things, like discover what you haven’t known or pay attention to what you might have been ignoring).
If you work with a coach, respect the time and space you need to take in order to be successful in the coaching intervention. Remember, no magic wands. Every choice you make builds your future right now.
http://www.abetterperspective.com/How_To_Choose_a_Coach.pdf
Or…. you can answer “But I’ve always done things this way” and stay exactly where you are. Your choice.
I’ll leave you with this…
“The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves.” - Carl Jung. Start choosing and creating a life you love. If you do, work will become ‘play’. Make it be great!
Donna Karlin
Founder and Principal
A Better Perspective
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